Summer survive ?

It is so hot, sweating while move a bit, even for some people, sweating while just sit there. Actually, I could not remember how it was the last summer, but it doesn't matter now. Eventhough I do not like too hot weather, the most I do not like is mosquitos.

No body likes mosquitos, for me, I am scared of mosquitos. I got bitten every night, itch and big swallow. Friedends ask why don't I use some spray or cream or drops, or the electronic killers. None of them works for me. First spray the room, put the stuff on my body, next day, the big red, itchhh,,,,,, after bite puts on,,,,,,itchhh.......still.

********Horrible!!!!

That is my destination, bitten by mosquitos in the summer, I can survive from being hot but not mosquitos.

Blood type is O, and perhaps sweet blood, very tasty.........Those are not my fault, who can help change.......Let me escape from them

Jasmine.......!!

W0o lala..Woo lala.....That used to be my English name...................!!!

Accidently, I was searching the date of Chinese new year. The traditional new year is exactly the same date as my birthday, suprise...But wait a bit, still half a year to go. Then found out the new year news, the Österreinische Vienna classic philharmonic (Chinese of the name for me is easy for me, only three phrase), which I like, will come to have a China tour. woow...looking forward, but I think I can not go. I was checking the program list, there are Wiener Blut Walzer,An der schönen blauen Donau,Bizett: aus der Oper Carmen......Red Women soliers, the butterfly, and the make me rember one---Jasmine flower....!!　The chinese folk song, played with traditional music instruments. 　　　　　　　　　　　　

And also the world wide orchestras and bands play it too, so the traditional song became the modern opera....wowwwooo.. the other diferent feeling.

(Two videos to make you all compare)

Actually, the folk was very old, and spreaded the whole China,because of the nice melody and easy sentence was changed into different vision, and also sang by different Chinese local language. I prefer to only have a simple voice singing. As the flowerself, I like the smell, and little wite flower, very fresh. That was why I used it as my first English name. But only was using that for half an year, I still remembered, before I came to study abroad, it was very popular to have a English name to be called, make the name easier. And some friends said, that was too common, the name, you should change it. And your look doesn't look like Jasmine flower, better don;t use it. And also the Chinese pronounciation was as similar as a name of eye drops, oh... That sounds a bit....ooohhh....Ok Change it!!

So a small story of my English name, but till now I still like it. Jasmine,...like it as a name, a song, and a story of the song.......

Love spreads in animals' world

Preface

An interesting video of the Birds of Paradise. A sound from a bird:

Hey, look at me! I am a normal bird, like to stay in the tropical forrest, or the rain forrest, it depends on my mood. Humm.... I am always in black, that is my style. Don't you know that, MIB? It means Man In Black, that is talking about me. oh.....by the way, you may see some similar kind like how I look, they are just my families, but please come on , first focus on looking at me.

I like jumping here and there. I am always curious, and want to check out every thing. Sometimes, there are some dusts or the little insect, I have to help all the weak brunches, keep them clean and away from danger. You know, I am always like that, being a volunteer and playing as a "Mama"....But I am not gay, please do not missunderstand me.

I like singing and dancing with music. I have a nice outfit, turning around with it, and sometimes move my head, like Turkish girls do. I feel so happy and free while I am dancing. What a pity! I have no girl friend can sing and dance with me. Happyness need be shared. I should find one, being in love is a great feeling. How can I miss that in the part of my life?

"Wooo... Who you are? Where do you come from? Hey! hey! hey! Come on, stay away from me. Don't come so close to me, I do not know you yet." I think she is not my type, better threat her and stay back. What? Why she is still here, not give up. Ok!! Let's me continue." Lalalala lala.....oh ya..she left.. I think I should choose a best one for me.

I can not expect my love, she will apear in my life one day. I am alway a nice guy, haha..... Do you like me?

( The End)

Healthy food

I was struggling with pimples on the face already several days, and also was unnormall by going to the toilet every time. This green store is offering the healthy nature food, i just went there once with betty. As the knowledge from traditional chinese medicine, taking medicine for health rather than taking healthy food. Withour those centrums, I went here to buy some green food, dry millet, maize and soya beans. I believe hardly people will like it. I remembered that when I was young, mum always made some porridge, with green beans, maize and millet, mix or seprate. To be honest, I like those things, but not porridge. The story as mum told me, when I was in the kindergarden, everytime if we had eat porridge, I always put them into the other kid's bowel, and hangs up, told teacher I finished. I was rather being in hunger, but not eat them. Mum always said I was a nauty girl when I was young.

I am gonna try out again if I like it.






That is one meal. The porridge doesn;t look good, a bit dry, should put more water to boil it. The tast was not bad, just the nature tast from three mixed different food. I can not take it every day, I still prefer the wite rice, haha... even less kinds of nutriention, but tasty. However, I do not mind eat it once a week, always fewer things make more important.



Extra story: People can see the Chinese paper was used as the cloth, I used that just in case to make the cloth dirty, and also sometimes I can read words while I am eating. Crazy!!

Open day

Chinese, as one of the most popular language is learned by a lot of foreigners. Danhua has welcomed a new school open day for Chinese followers.

Already work in the Chinese school for half an year, get along with colleagues and students. The class what I and the other teacher teach is a special one, the students are in the age from 15 to 45, quiet different. They want to learn how to speak Chinese, and a little bit writing, basically only learn PINYIN is enough. They are either working in a company need Chinese, or their family is Chinese, they have motivation to learn , so doesn't matter the age. When everytime they have make a small progress, I always feel I achieve my dream closer.

The Children class. Parents and their kids can attend the class for free, to see if they feel like sending the kids to learn Chinese. " Education starts earlier"Goin to be easier in the future.

I remembered before I was talking with a friend, if parents from two nations, what language can kid speak. At least two and without any accent. It sounds very nice, and also easier for studying a new language. haha...I like the idea.

So let's call up the international marriage....... haha..

" I am German!"

My the other project is doing the research for a German auto carwashing service company, which wants to expand the business by opening a car wash spot or joining venture in China.

Had skype conference call between Rotterdam(Holland) and Duessedorf(Germany) with the manager, after the cozy opening, the first sentence is " The Chinese are like followers".

(Here I need to explain a bit, Chinese here means language, and we had finished the draft report, and the purpose of the meeting is for advice. And the biggest report were written by three Chinese girls, includes me)


And the next sentence is " I am German!"

First sentence we were confused, and second sentence we were even more. Of course he is German, and what does the meaning of flowers. He started to explain, " I am German(come on, again?), why, I can always find negative points, or I want to find, it doesn't mean your report is bad, opposite, I am impressed. (ahahaa....breath out) ,But( hold on the breath again....and "but "always follows the more important point), there are still some points I am missing, for example.........."

Ok, the long meeting started like this.............


Staying abroad, can always feel the culture difference. Not only start understanding the western culture, but also realizing my own culture. And realize some points I also do not like, I call it
" too Chinese". In general, I could realize Chinese like this, Germans are more like that, or Dutch are more like the other points, a group of same nation always stands for one kind of culture. There are may some different between diferent individules, but also can find some commons. Actually, I like the trend of culture globlization. Too extream in one point I do not like that, with differnt cultures, I can always get the positive points, and try to understand people, compromise between each other, and compare if I am too fanatic. I always believe that the idea is not always good and right, need to find out what can be better.

Law of " Ai Wu Ji Wu"

Most people have know the " Murphy's Law but not " Ai Wu Ji Wu', the Chinese Slang.

" Ai Wu Ji Wu", the meaning is: a person loves his house, and then also loves crows on the roof of his house. But now, Chinese people used it as a metaphor that people love someone, will also care about and love everything related to this person. Well, it can also not only be used on human beings, I had understood the meaning and also the metaphoer, but did not have any real example ( the evidence to make me believe) in my daily life, but the recent observation were telling me, I should believe it.

People always have the preference, it is nature. The idea and opinions people will most agree or follow while the people you like are telling. Sometimes, even do not agree on , but always patient, towards very supportive attitude, till the last word of the speech. There is a comparison, basically two people A and B are giving the same opinions, but A is a more favorable person by C. B was arguing back immediately just after the fist sentence. But A is talking, talking, talking wiht the supportive sight and nodding head from C. Let ignore if A is wrong. Interuption is not nice, ignoring the feeling of B is not fair nomatter while people talk to whom.

Actually there are nothing wrong about with the whole story. It is not possiblbe to be 100% rational while what situation people in and what kind of people are facing to. We are humans, with emotions and passions. Making mistakes can not be avoided, but need to be considered enough and complete before, otherwise will hurt the other people and self.


Last word: I also recognized for myself, that no matter what, paying a little bit attention on, will always find the new idea and give self suprise.

Breaking out in silence

It sounds like I am a hedgehog, but sometimes in some situations, I think it is necessary to behavior like a hedgehog.

The exporting & sales project has taken long time since last November, I am a bit sick of it, but still need to keep it on and finish it by the end of year2. Already the secret unsatisfied has been jumping through the entire group for a long time, but still no people stand up, also include me. It seems too international group can also not work perfectly. People are trying to be nice and friendly to each other, I agree. But the work is work, once people are in a team, the responsibilities are divided.

Now I realize, directly speaking is not always bad especially while you are facing so different and difficult people. Because what I leant from my culture and my personal experince , I can not so direct to talk to people, it brougt me be confused and also into trouble. Too nice to the world is not good, even got misunderstood. And got the extra pressure what people were trying put on me, and expected me finish which are no within my responsibilities.

I lost my temper, but was asked by why, but why should not I? People can hardly think I was really angry on someone or even lose temper, I am not that kind of people, so gradully I lost my right.

I hope I can still have anger. Already got enough unhappiness and stress, anger may help me to break out my emotion, why shoud care so much about the others more than myself, first take care of myself.

I am tired.

Let's cry

Still remember a view from a movie, a girl is running all the time till get wet, " why don't you stop?"" I am sweating, in order to stop tears coming out from my eyes."

......

well, It sounds not logical but I think we can understand what she means,right?

It is not necessary to dam up our feelings, and I do not believe that people want to do that. The only thing is that people do not dare or do not want to express in front of people, especially when people are sad. Tears can be with happiness, touched, missing and sadness, pains or even the dust. It is just the water in our body coming out.

Cry is a nice way to let out the depression and sadness. Why should we force ourselves? and keep telling ourselves " Don't cry, you have to be strong"? Some people say " You just want to get sympathy from the other people when people see you are crying." That is true, we are all humans, we will give the sympathies when we see someone cry, nothing wrong about it, but I do not like the people to say in that way.It sounds so cold. Let's cry when we want, do not dam up the feelings.

Cry, cry, cry; we do, we do,we do, nomatter females or males, why not?After that, feel tired, but still feel much better. Just like when you are very happy, can you stop laughing?

Why me?

" What a nice guy!"Betty said.

We just went out from the " Betty Bear", the most popular restaurant bar is visited by us. A guy was in a rush and passing a garbage bin, sundenly he turned back, bended down, picked up a empty can and threw it into the bin.Keeping walking

" Why did he stop again?"

He saw the other plastic bag in the blossom on the street, quickly pick it up and dropped into the same bin, and glanced at us.

We were a bit shocked, there are still these kind of people exist. Most of people think this guy must be crazy or stupid. There should be some specialized cleaner come to clean up the garbage on the street. I am touched. I never throw the garbage on the street, but I do not know if i will also pick up any garbage on the street and throw them into the bin while I am walking on the street. I still remembered that when i was in primary school, we had kind of volunteer activity. a group of students were hanging on the street with sweepers. Even some of us wouldn't like to , but had to follow . Now think about it, that was a part of the education.

People may think " why should I do it?" but "why not?" I do not think that is silly, on the other hand also admire the awareness of the environmental protection.

One world, one family....

Child soldier

By accident, I caught up one piece of the interview of a black guy in sierra leone on TV

He was the general in the child soldier when he was 14. The suprising story is that he drank human blood.That is scaring and disgusting!!(I saw the movie named Twinlight, that was not humans behavior) He played a rols as a big boy in the team, gambling the femal or the male, just went to suck the blood. I saw his face, he was talking very natually, and carmly. Now he still lives in the villige while he was the gerneral, he said the people there could forgive him. Noone could say whose fault it was. But for me, he suffered such a bad childhood, could still behavior like nothing happened. Somehow, there should be a shadow in his heart.

I felt so sorry for him. Things are getting better, we can not go back to change the history, can forvigen but can never be forgotten.