Law of " Ai Wu Ji Wu"

Most people have know the " Murphy's Law but not " Ai Wu Ji Wu', the Chinese Slang.

" Ai Wu Ji Wu", the meaning is: a person loves his house, and then also loves crows on the roof of his house. But now, Chinese people used it as a metaphor that people love someone, will also care about and love everything related to this person. Well, it can also not only be used on human beings, I had understood the meaning and also the metaphoer, but did not have any real example ( the evidence to make me believe) in my daily life, but the recent observation were telling me, I should believe it.

People always have the preference, it is nature. The idea and opinions people will most agree or follow while the people you like are telling. Sometimes, even do not agree on , but always patient, towards very supportive attitude, till the last word of the speech. There is a comparison, basically two people A and B are giving the same opinions, but A is a more favorable person by C. B was arguing back immediately just after the fist sentence. But A is talking, talking, talking wiht the supportive sight and nodding head from C. Let ignore if A is wrong. Interuption is not nice, ignoring the feeling of B is not fair nomatter while people talk to whom.

Actually there are nothing wrong about with the whole story. It is not possiblbe to be 100% rational while what situation people in and what kind of people are facing to. We are humans, with emotions and passions. Making mistakes can not be avoided, but need to be considered enough and complete before, otherwise will hurt the other people and self.


Last word: I also recognized for myself, that no matter what, paying a little bit attention on, will always find the new idea and give self suprise.