" To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little; To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and ..................."
I saw this setence appearing a friend's profile on MSN. He said because of the restriciton of words, he did not finish the complete setence. Actually, the format should be the same.
" To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little; To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and understand her a little"
Well, in this case, It sounds like two people is putting different efforts in the relationship, Loving and understanding. Is that "undertand" more difficult than " love", or I use the other word: painstaking. People can fall in love with someone within one second, but if people want to understand someone, maybe need to use the whole life.Loving makes more understanding. In some situation, the reality can detory it. But i believe that only stonger people can stay like that in the longer time( forever) with the happiness.
Loving and understanding are not countable, it is only known by the woman and the man. Happiness is only esist in the loving and understnading.
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- Lori Luo
- I am from China, studying in Holland at this moment. Slowly, I am realizing I should write down my thoughs, experience and emotions. Sharing the happiness, i will get double; Sharing the sadness, I will get half. So i started writing the blogs.Actually, my writing skill is not good also can be bad for the native English speakers, but I am willing to try my best. " If you do not start the first step,you will never success!" I am a lucky girl. I can have so many different people surrounding me, and give me a big influence on my thoughs, attitude and opinions, encourage me always being positive. I am learning and also growing to become a muture woman. Welcome everyone to leave your comments and emotions, and share your ideas with me.Friends can be everywhere, no national boundaries, no ethnical boundaries.
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